The author of this site is male and married although now separated from his wife, and is gay.

He woke up to his gay side nearly 20 years into his marriage, and frankly, the world was never the same again, either for him or for his wife or his family when he came out to them. It took several years to come to some sort of solution which was workable.

That solution for him is separation while at the same time maintaining friendship and mutual support.

Out of respect for his family, he generally does not disclose where he is based or very much about himself.

Whereas he is not a professional counselor, he is prepared to talk to others by e-mail, men and women, who need to speak to someone about the situations they find themselves in, to give them support in their time of need. This is always in confidence.

To contact him, just go to the Contact page.