About the Author
The Author of this site is male and married although living a separated life from his wife, and is gay.
He woke up to his gay side nearly 20 years into his marriage, and frankly, the world was never the same again, either for him or for his wife or his family when he came out to them. It took several years to come to some sort of solution which was workable.
That solution for him is separation while at the same time maintaining friendship and mutual support. This has been the status quo for several years.
Out of respect for his family, he generally does not disclose where he is based or very much about himself.
He is not a professional counsellor and does not normally enter into discussion with others.

