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The following bibliography may be of interest:

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Brant, Martin (2006) "Five Married Men" ISBN 0-595-39408-6 - Five Married Men—after years of denial, five happily married, like-minded men give themselves to an emotional bond that comes with an unexpected price.

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Brownfain, J.J. (1985) "A Study of the married bisexual male: Paradox and resolution" Journal of Homosexuality, 11(1/2), 173-188. (Also published in F.Klein and T.J. Wolf [Eds.], "Two lives to lead: Bisexuality in men and women" [pp. 173-188]. New York: Harrington Park Press)

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Buxton, A.P. (2001). "Writing our own script: How bisexual men and their heterosexual wives maintain their marriages after disclosure." Journal of Bisexuality, 1 (2/3), 155189.

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Clark, Don (1997) "Loving Someone Gay" Celestial Arts ISBN 0-89087-837-4 has a chapter on gay men in marriage.

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Curtis, Jill (1998) "Making and Breaking Families" Free Association Books ISBN 185343 412 4 looks at the many new combinations which have come to constitute a family at the end of the 20th century including families where one or both parents are gay or lesbian, with custody of a child from a previous relationship

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Dunne, Dr. Gillian A. (1999) "The different dimensions of Gay Fatherhood" Report to the Economic and Social Research Council. The Gender Institute, London School of Economics. The findings of this report suggest that gay men represent a very interesting population of fathers, not least because they are actively engaged parents. Read

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Fleisher, Joanne (2005 ) "Living Two Lives: Married to a Man And in Love With a Woman" (Alyson Books) - From 1967 to 1979 Joanne Fleisher led a happy life in the suburbs, a mother of two and the wife of a successful lawyer. Then she fell in love with a female friend and everything changed. Her experiences, as well as those of the women who write to her advice column Ask Joanne, inspired her to write Living Two Lives, a guide for women grappling with the difficult process of coming out while being married to a man. 

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Houston, Ruth (2005) "Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs" ISBN 0-9720553-4-7 - This book lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually over look

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Jones, Garrett (2000) "Coming Clean about Bisexuality" . This book is freely available on the internet at web.onetel.com/~jnjones. In this book, the author offers his views on sexuality in a frank and honest manner. The author welcomes feedback but only after the book has been read in its entirety.

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Kaye, Bonnie (2006) "Straight Wives, Shattered Lives". Stories of wives with gay husbands, edited by Bonnie Kaye.

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Isay, Richard A. (1996) "Becoming Gay" Owl Books ISBN 0-8050-5315-8 has a chapter on gay men in marriage

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Leddick, David (2003) "The Secret Lives of Married Men" Alyson Publications ISBN 1555837743. Leddick profiles 39 gay men, ranging in age from their 30's to their 80's, who are--or who have been, married to women

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Schleicher, Dennis J. (2006) "Forbidden Love with a Married Man - E-mail Diaries" AuthorHouse ISBN - 1-4259-4426-4 (sc). The book describes one couple's journey as they struggle with identity and right and wrong. It includes actual e-mails and correspondence between the author and his boyfriend who at the time had been married for 14 years.

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Siegel, Stanley and Lowe, Ed. Jr. ( ) "Uncharted Lives -- Understanding the Life Passages of Gay Men" Plume/Penguin ISBN 0-452-27448-6 refers to a couple of other books, one dealing with the mature homosexual

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Smith, Tom (1992) "Half Straight: My Secret Bisexual Life" -- "Whatever your attitude about homosexuality, there are individuals whom you greatly respect and admire, and in all probability you will never know that they are gay"  Prometheus Books ISBN 0-87975-734-5

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Suresha, Ron Jackson and Chvany, Peter (2006) "Bi Men: Coming Out Every Which Way" ISBN 1-56023-614-0 - an anthology of bisexual men's coming-out and coming-of-age stories

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Thompson, Nancy Robards "What Happens In Paris (Stays In Paris?)"  - for almost two decades Annabelle Essex thought her marriage was pretty solid. Their son was in college. That all changes when her spouse is arrested in an incident that makes it into the newspaper with a picture worth a thousand words informing her that her spouse is gay. Harlequin Next ISBN: 0373880766

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Venn-Brown, Anthony "A Life of Unlearning - A Journey to Find the Truth" - To some degree we are all living a life of unlearning: unlearning the things we have accepted without question but which have no truth in our lives... On the surface, Anthony Venn-Brown was a happily married father of two and an evangelist preacher for the Assemblies of God Church - but he was living a lie. Tired of feeling torn and fragmented, he confessed and came out, and the results of that confession took him on a lonely journey that made him who he is today.Abandoned by the church, which considered homosexuality an abomination, he lost everything he'd worked for and everyone he cared about. It was the bravest, hardest thing he'd ever done - but finally he'd been honest with himself. New Holland Publishers

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White, Mel (1995) "Stranger at the Gate" Plume ISBN 0-452-27381-1

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