There is no "final score" for the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid - if you are wishing to check your sexuality now, you may wish to take the average scores for the "Now" line, highlighted in bold. This will give you an approximation, but it is very crude since such things as "Social Preference" have little to do with sexuality. Nevertheless, the closer to "0", the more heterosexual you are likely to be, the closer to "6", the more homosexual you are likely to be, with "bisexual" somewhere in the middle.
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Enter as indicated in boxes to search specific criteria or leave blank for all results:
Gender (Sex) (enter Male / Female / Other)
Emotional Preference Now (enter 0 to 6)
Sexual Attraction Now (enter 0 to 6)
Social Preference Now (enter 0 to 6)
Sexual Behaviour Now (enter 0 to 6)
Lifestyle Preference Now (enter 0 to 6)
Sexual Fantasy Now (enter 0 to 6)
Self Identification (Label) Now (enter 0 to 6
(Leave all boxes clear for all results.)
The responses here are ordered by "age" first and then by "sexual fantasy now".
Age
Gender
Other Explan-ation
Relation-ship Status
Other Status
A. Sexual Attraction
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
B. Sexual Behaviour
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
C. Sexual Fantasy
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
D. Emotional Preference
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
E. Social Preference
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
F. Lifestyle Preference
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
G. Self Identifictn.*
Teens
20s - 30s
40s - 50s
Now
Ideal
Sexual Partners
Opp. Sex
Same Sex
Influences
Changes in Ideals**
Respondee's History
18
Male
Other
Taken by opposite sex
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
0
Parents
18
Female
Other
Single
3
N/A
N/A
3
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
2
N/A
N/A
2
0
0
0
Parents, Peers / Friends, Own Research, Other
18
Female
Unmarried
1
N/A
N/A
1
1
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
3
3
2
N/A
N/A
4
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
0
N/A
N/A
1
0
2
0
Peers / Friends
18
Female
Unmarried
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
3
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
4
3
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
4
N/A
N/A
3
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
0
0
Own Research, Other
I'm a virgin, but I do feel attraction. It might be helpful to have a 'virgin' option in the check off.
18
Male
Unmarried
6
N/A
N/A
6
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
3
6
N/A
N/A
0
6
1
N/A
N/A
1
0
3
N/A
N/A
3
1
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
2
2
0
0
Experimentation
18
Male
Unmarried
3
N/A
N/A
1
3
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
1
4
N/A
N/A
4
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
1
N/A
N/A
1
1
2
4
Peers / Friends
None
18
Female
Unmarried
5
N/A
N/A
4
2
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
5
5
N/A
N/A
0
3
4
N/A
N/A
3
2
3
N/A
N/A
3
4
3
N/A
N/A
5
3
0
N/A
N/A
0
3
0
0
Peers / Friends, Own Research, Experimentation
18
Female
Unmarried
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
5
N/A
N/A
5
5
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
0
Other
I was not attracted to anyone until age 11.
18
Female
Relationship same sex
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
6
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
1
Own Research, Experimentation
18
Male
Unmarried
4
N/A
N/A
5
1
3
N/A
N/A
3
1
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
4
N/A
N/A
3
0
1
N/A
N/A
3
1
N/A
N/A
N/A
4
0
1
1
Experimentation
18
Female
Unmarried
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
1
3
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
2
3
4
N/A
N/A
4
3
2
N/A
N/A
2
4
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
2
0
Experimentation
18
Female
Unmarried
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
6
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
6
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
1
Parents
18
Female
Unmarried
1
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
1
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
1
0
2
N/A
N/A
4
3
3
N/A
N/A
3
3
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
0
Own Research
vary rarly find myself liking another woman. not exactly in a sexual way, but i want to be close with them, or have [non sexual] physical contact.
18
Male
Unmarried
no relationships in past or present
1
N/A
N/A
5
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
1
N/A
N/A
3
3
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
2
0
0
0
Own Research
I now believe that i may be bisexual...
I have had crushes on girls all my life, ever since i can remember. I like girls emotionally, romantically, and i often dream of kissing them (although rarely having sex with them). The only problem is that I am rarely turned on by women, although i am turned on by some men (only on the computer, but rarely in real life). Also, I have never had a crush on a guy, i have never fantasized over having sex with a guy, or kissing one either.
18
Female
Unmarried
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
6
N/A
N/A
0
0
5
N/A
N/A
0
0
6
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
0
Own Research
18
Female
Unmarried
1
N/A
N/A
1
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
1
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
4
2
1
N/A
N/A
0
0
1
N/A
N/A
1
0
1
0
Parents, Peers / Friends, Religion, Own Research, Experimentation
18
Female
Unmarried
2
N/A
N/A
0
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
2
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
4
N/A
N/A
0
0
3
N/A
N/A
0
0
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
0
Own Research
18
Female
Unmarried
N/A
N/A
N/A
1
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
0
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
1
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
3
4
N/A
N/A
N/A
3
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
1
3
N/A
N/A
N/A
2
3
2
0
Own Research, Other
18
Female
Unmarried
1
N/A
N/A
1
3
0
N/A
N/A
0
3
1
N/A
N/A
1
3
6
N/A
N/A
6
3
5
N/A
N/A
5
4
1
N/A
N/A
2
4
0
N/A
N/A
1
3
30
2
Own Research
I had always thought of myself as straight until this year I am taking a LGBQT course in college and it has really got me thinking and opened my mind. I know that I have always love and felt emotionally connected to women but I have been traditionally sexually attracted to and sexually active with mainly just males. And so I am a bit confused. I feel like I am sexually attracted to one and emotionally to the other.
18
Male
Unmarried
0
N/A
N/A
1
0
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
1
N/A
N/A
1
0
3
N/A
N/A
3
2
5
N/A
N/A
5
3
1
N/A
N/A
1
1
0
N/A
N/A
0
0
0
0
Peers / Friends
* Self identification Label is similar in some ways to a Kinsey Number but it is not identical. Sexual fantasies probably get a bit closer to the truth.
** This comes from a new question in the questionnaire which asks "How much do you think your "ideal" situation may have changed over the years, if at all?" If you would like to respond to this, please contact the author.
The above data is constantly under review but there are no patterns evident as illustrated by the attached PDF which shows charts of responses by males aged from 18 upwards.
There are often clear differences in the way people have scored their teens and scored their later life, as they gradually come to terms with their sexuality and decide how they are going to cope with it.
The way in which people have scored their "ideal" situation seems to depend on how they view themselves. If they have not come to terms with their true sexuality (principally because they have insufficient experience to know), they often score as if they wanted to be "normal", whereas those who have come to terms with their sexuality, often score to match what they consider to be their true, unconstrained sexuality.
Things like lifestyle and social preferences tend to match the way people want to live, often in an opposite gender or balanced environment, whereas sexual attraction and sexual fantasy tend to be related more to their sexual desires.
Sexual behaviour is often influenced by a person's circumstances. Thus a homosexual person in marriage may show little or no homosexual activity (depending on opportunity) whereas they could score their sexual attractions and fantasies with a same gender bias.
Scrutiny of responses from people who are 10 or 20 years older than you, if they have scored in a similar fashion and have a similar history, could give you a clue as to what the future might bring to you, although remember that we are all different.
I am grateful for the help and support of Anthony Venn-Brown - Author - Life Coach - Speakerwho introduced me to the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (invented by Fritz Klein) and to his various colleagues who helped me through a short piloting of the questionnaire. This page is continuing to be developed as the results from the responses are reviewed.
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