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The following are some of the links available for straight / gay / bisexual individuals and for couples:

Note: "Gay" means "gay or bisexual" on this page

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e.g. "Gay" / "Lesbian" Persons or "Straight Persons" or "Couples" or "Children" of Gay Persons

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Type

For

Country

National or State

County or City

Name

Description

URL / Email

Resource

Gay Persons

Holland

National

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Orpheus

Orpheus - a nation wide organization, supporting all participants in the married-gay situation, known in Holland as the Orpheus relationship

http://www.xs4all.nl/~orpheus

Group

Straight Persons

United Kingdom

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English Wives

Support for British Wives of Bi/Gay Men - A small caring support group for British WIVES of Bisexual, Gay or SSA (Bi-curious) men. They know from experience the pain, loss, betrayal, confusion, loss of self-esteem & feelings of isolation inflicted by the discovery (often after many years of marriage) that their husbands/partners are Bi/Gay/SSA and they offer friendship, understanding and a sympathetic e-mail ear

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EnglishWives/

Resource

Gay / Lesbian Persons

United Kingdom

England

Cheshire

Warrington Lesbian & Gay Bi-sexual Helpline

Telephone: 01295 241994

Group / Help

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Cheshire

West Men's Project

West Men's Project (Chester, Ellesmere Port & Neston) - this replaces The Men's' Community Development Project. This Support Group provides support for the well being of men who have sex with men, including counseling and support on sexual health / relationships / sexuality. All services are completely free and confidential. For more information, contact WAYNE on Chester (01244) 650534 or (mobile) 0774 7631021. Alternatively, e-mail them on: westmensproject@hotmail.com

mailto:westmensproject@hotmail.com

Group

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

London

London Bi Group

The London Bisexual Group is a supportive social space for bisexuals who want to meet and share their experiences with other bisexuals. Anyone can attend regardless of sexuality.

http://londonbi.bi.org/

Resource / Help

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

London

London Bi Helpline

Tel: 0208 569 7500 (7:30 - 9:30pm Tues/Weds, 10:30am - 12:30pm Sats) - trained volunteers and strong codes of confidentiality

Group

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Manchester

Gay Married Men

The Group is for men who are, or who have been in relationships with women and who also have sexual feelings for other men. The group is an open, relaxed and highly confidential space that allows men to explore and talk openly and frankly about their feelings and experiences, without being judged or coerced into one particular direction. All volunteers and group members are in, or have been in, relationships with women so can understand and offer mutual support to other men in the same situation as ourselves.

http://www.gaymarriedmen.co.uk/

Group

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Manchester

Lesbian and Gay Foundation, Manchester

The LGF has a married men's group which meets on Tuesday evenings (7.30pm) - see also Gay Married Men, Manchester

http://www.lgfoundation.org.uk/

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Manchester

The Manchester Bisexuals Homepage

This site aims to be an online hub of news and links for the local bisexual community around Manchester and Northwest England. They welcome feedback and input.

http://manchester.bi.org/

Group / Sexual Health

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Sheffield

Sheffield Married Men's Group

Sheffield Centre for HIV & Sexual Health - this group has the Sheffield Married Men's group which is for men who are married or in a relationship with a woman and who are also attracted to men. The group meets twice monthly.

http://www.sexualhealthsheffield.co.uk/

Group / Sexual Health

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

Teesside and Tyneside

Mesmac North East

Mesmac North East - North East of England - mainly Tyneside and Teesside - this has a married gay men's group which meets twice a month.

http://www.mesmacnortheast.com/

Resource / Helpline

Gay / Lesbian / Transexual Persons

United Kingdom

England

Warwickshire

Coventry & Warwickshire Friend

When people first realise they are lesbian or gay, they often think they are abnormal. They believe no-one else is like them.
Estimates vary, but it's believed that between 2-10% of the population are lesbian or gay. If the figure was 10% for instance, that would mean there would be 30,000 gay people in Coventry.
Nothing is wrong with being lesbian or gay, but problems are created for us by the ignorance and prejudice of others.
Hundreds of people call us every year. Most are lesbian, gay, or unsure of their sexuality, but transvestites, transsexuals and the families of all these people turn to us for help. Many of them have been so distressed, it has taken them weeks or months to pluck up the courage even to telephone us.

http://www.cwfriend.co.uk/index.html

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

England

West Midlands

Lesbian and Gay Switchboard West Midlands

Lesbian & Gay Switchboard West Midlands exists in order to promote the welfare of anyone attracted to the same sex, by means of a telephone answering service and by other means as and when required. All our workers are volunteers. We are available to the public every night of the year for three hours. Since our beginnings in 1975 we have taken over one hundred thousand calls. We have three lines, a Minicom to communicate with deaf people, a voice mail system offering information 24 hours a day. Tel: 0121 622 6589

http://www.gaymidlands.org/

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

National

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Bi Community News

Bi Community News - There is a new guide to coming out and bisexuality in the UK entitled "Both Directions". There are regular newsletters to subscribers.

http://www.bicommunitynews.co.uk/

Resource / Help

Gay / Lesbians / Straight Persons / Couples

United Kingdom

National

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Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (FFLAG)

Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays is a continually growing national voluntary organisation and registered charity with 18 telephone helplines across the UK and parents' groups which hold regular meetings.
FFLAG is dedicated to supporting parents and their gay, lesbian and bisexual sons and daughters.
FFLAG offers support to local parents groups and contacts, in their efforts to help parents and families understand accept and support their lesbian gay and bisexual members with love and pride.

http://www.fflag.org.uk/

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

National

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Gay Dads in the UK

The site is to offer support, comfort and friendship to all gay fathers in the UK, whether divorced, separated, still married or closeted. There is a one-off membership fee to cover the cost of the website.

http://www.gaydads.co.uk

Group

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

National

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John and Jan Desmond

John and Jan Desmond are starting a small support group on a social basis for bi-sexual, especially married etc. people in the Surrey / Sussex / Kent / South London area of the United Kingdom.

mailto:john.desmond@virgin.net

Resource / Help

Gay / Lesbians / Straight Persons / Couples

United Kingdom

National

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Relate

Counselling, sex therapy and relationship education supporting couple and family relationships in the UK.

http://www.relate.org.uk

Sexual Health

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

National

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Terence Higgins Trust

Information on Safe Sex.

http://www.tht.org.uk/

List

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

National

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UK Bi

The UK-Bi mailing llist - unmoderated - to keep UK Bis aware of what everyone else is up to and of Bi events in the UK, and to share information about what Bisexual resources are available on the net.

http://www.ogham.org/uk-bi/welcome.html

Resource / Sexual Health

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

Scotland

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Healthy Gay Scotland

With resources and contacts in Scotland as well as information on safe sex.

http://www.hgscotland.org.uk/

Resource / Help

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

Scotland

Edinburgh

Edinburgh Bi Helpline

Edinburgh Bi Helpline - tel: 0131 557 3620 (7:30 - 9:30pm Thursdays) - trained volunteers and strong codes of confidentiality

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom

Scotland

Glasgow

Glasgow LGBT Centre

Celebrating equality and diversity in the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.
The Centre aims to develop into a truly inclusive space that will be seen as a beacon in the west of Scotland for all members of the LGBT community.

http://www.glgbt.org.uk/

Resource

Gay Persons

United Kingdom / European Union

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Steve William's Gay Dads Site

Their mission is, amongst other things, to create a safe space where guys from all over the European Union can offer help, support and encouragement to each other.
The site principally caters for members of the European Union.

http://www.gaydadsupport.net

Group

Gay Persons

United Kingdom / European Union

National

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Gaydadsupport · Gay Dad Support for Gay & Bi Dads

Support Group For Gay Dads Across the EU - Free to Join
If you live in the EU, speak English, are in or have been in a relationship with a woman and have children and are thinking that maybe you could be gay or bisexual, GayDadsupport is for you
You will meet other men that have been through something similar to you and be able to read some of their stories on this site and to write to them on the Yahoo Groups site
This is NOT a contact or picture group
You will be required to agree to our terms and conditions before joining.
Members of the media are welcome to contact us but must not attempt to join the group unless they are gay male parents
Formerly gaydads-uk, changed in August 2005

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gaydadsupport/

Resource

Straight Persons

United Kingdom / World-wide

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Gay and Married

This website is intended for people who have had experiences of being in a gay relationship and didn't know about it until their partner/ wife/ husband, told them they were gay.

http://www.gayandmarried.moonfruit.com/

Resource

Lesbian Persons / Straight Persons / Children

United Kingdom / World-wide

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Lesbian Information Service

Established in 1987, Lesbian Information Service:
- has developed a unique training programme which looks at Homophobia Awareness from a Multi-Oppression Perspective and provided training to hundreds of service providers (youth, mental health, health, alcohol, social work, education, housing, clergy, police, voluntary organisations)
- develops publications to back-up its work in helping service providers, researchers and individuals
- probably has one of the best research libraries in Britain on lesbian and gay health and social issues (especially lesbian and gay youth, alcohol, mental health)
- has conducted research around young lesbians and gays, alcohol, lesbians and housing
- has supported thousands of lesbians, in particular young lesbians and lesbians who are coming out; LIS can no longer offer a support service to individual lesbians
- has provided information and support to thousands of service providers (youth, mental health, health, education, social services, counselling and advice), researchers and journalists

This site includes a page entitled "ABS - Married Lesbians"

For further information and access to the LIS publications, visit the site. For your training, research and consultancy needs email lis@lesbianinformationservice.org or telephone: 01706.817235 or write to: Lesbian Information Service, at P.O. Box 8, Todmorden, Lancashire, OL14 5TZ.

http://www.lesbianinformationservice.org/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

California

Berkeley

Married Gay/Formerly Married Gay/Bisexual Men's Support Group

The group meets in Berkeley, CA . The group has been in existence for approximately 30 years and is hosted by the Pacific Center for Human Growth (another resource).

http://www.pacificcentermen.org

Sexual Health

Gay Persons

United States

California

Sutter County

Sutter County Health Department

Sutter County Health Department in Yuba City, CA has developed a web site for AIDS/HIV resources (Education and Testing)

http://aids.co.sutter.ca.us/

Resource / Group

Gay Persons

United States

District of Columbia

Washington

GAMMA - The Gay Married Men's Association of the Washington, D.C. Metropolitan Area

Providing peer counseling, support, and outreach to gay and bisexual married men, their wives, partners, and friends.
GAMMA is a peer support group for men who:
- Identify themselves as gay or bisexual and are simply attracted to men, and
- Are now or have been in a relationship with a woman, or are contemplating such a relationship.

http://www.gay-married.com

Discussion Group

Gay Persons

United States

Illinois

Chicago

Chicago MOM's Group

We meet at the DuPage Unitarian Universalist Church in Naperville Illinois. Our meeting is the fourth Monday of the month. Meetings are held from 7:00 to 9:00 P.M. The meeting if for husband and wives to come together to share their challenges and success. No age discrimination. Please join us for support and friendship

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mom_place_chicago/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

Illinois

Chicago

mGROUP Chicago

mGROUP Chicago is a support group for married [to women] gay and bisexual men, including those who are working to preserve their marriage and those who are in the process of separation or divorce. Age is not a factor. Members of the group range in age from the 20s to the 70s. They meet twice a month

http://www.mgroupchicago.org

Discussion Group

Gay Persons

United States

Illinois

Naperville

DuPage Married Men's Group

We meet at the DuPage Unitarian Universalist Church in Naperville Illinois. Our meeting is the first Tuesday of the month. Meetings are held from 7:00 to 9:00 P.M. Being or having been married is a requirement. No age discrimination. Please join us for support and friendship.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/dupage_married_mens_group/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

Kentucky

Cincinnati

Cincinnati Gay Married Support Group

A support group for men who are gay and married in the Greater Cincinnati / Northern Kentucky area

http://www.cincinnatigaymarried.com

Group

Gay Persons

United States

Massachusetts

Boston

Boston Gay & Bisexual Married Men's Support Group

A discussion group for gay and/or bisexual married men, including many who are working to preserve the marriage, and some in the process of separation or divorce. The Boston group meets regularly every first and third Monday and every second and fourth Tuesday from 7 til 9pm.
There is a Worcester Subgroup.

"You are not the only one"

http://www.bmmg.org

Resource

Gay Persons

United States

Massachusetts

Boston

Gay Fathers of Greater Boston

We are a network of gay men who have children living with us or apart from us. Some of us are divorced, some separated, and some still married. Some of us are in committed relationships with other men.
Our meetings provide a safe, confidential, and welcoming forum for talking about the issues of gay fatherhood.

http://gayfathersboston.org

Resource / Group

Gay Persons

United States

Michigan

Grand Rapids

GAMMA Grand Rapids

GAMMA Grand Rapids has a mission to provide a confidential, comfortable environment where gay men who are married, who have been married, or who are planning to marry, may meet to discuss their gayness in relation to straight wives, children, the workplace, friends and relatives. It advocates no position relative to the continuation or cessation of marriage.

http://www.gammagrandrapids.org/

Resource / Group

Gay Persons

United States

Missouri

Saint Louis

GAMMA Saint Louis

Saint Louis GAMMA has been established for a number of years and meets on the first and third Wednesday of each month from 7.30pm - 9.00pm. For general information, call the helpline at (314) 567-2076 or email stlgamma@netscape.net

mailto:stlgamma@netscape.net

Resource / List

Gay Persons

United States

National

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Bisexual Married Men of America

BMMA is an email list-serve which offers a unique way of dealing with the challenges that gay and bisexual men in marriage face daily. Messages posted by email to BMMA are read by hundreds of members. Those who wish to offer support, suggestions, affirmation, challenges or further questions can post their response to the mailing list for all to see, or they may write to the original poster privately, off the list.

http://bmma.safersex.org/

Resource

Gay Persons

United States

National

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Brian Mahieu - My Story

A journey toward living an authentic and integrated life - this is a personal story about someone who was brought up to believe that he was a "queer, faggot, homo", rejected by his parents, told that he would burn in hell for ever, and exorcised. Eventually found happiness in his male partner.

http://www.brianmahieu.com/my_story.html

Resource

Gay / Lesbian / Straight Persons / Children

United States

National

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COLAGE - Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere

Our Mission: To engage, connect, and empower people to make the world a better place for children of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and/or transgender parents and families.
People and Place: In the United States alone, more than 10 million people have one or more lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender parent(s). Today, COLAGE is the only national organization in the world specifically supporting children, youth and adults with LGBT parent(s). Using our experiences and creativity, COLAGE offers a diverse array of support, education and advocacy by and for folks with LGBT parents.
COLAGE Community: Whether you already know lots of other people with LGBT parent(s), or always thought you were the only one, COLAGE is a source of friendship and understanding. It is a place where you can talk about your family with complete honesty and pride. COLAGE is an organization that accepts your family AND celebrates it! Welcome- You've Got a Friend in COLAGE!

http://www.colage.org/

Blog

Gay Persons

United States

National

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Coming Out

The blog of someone as a Gay Husband and a Gay Dad

http://www.comingoutat48.blogspot.com

Blog

Gay / Lesbians / Straight Persons

United States

National

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Daily Briefing

Eliot is a 30 year-old married guy coming to terms with being gay.
He loves dogs, is a college football fan, loves to travel, should work out more, likes hot guys, enjoys baseball, loves fajitas, is a country music fan, likes to eat out, is a proud Democrat, has a sweet tea addiction, is a smart ass, loves the beach, curses too often, is demanding, watches How I Met Your Mother, likes movies, is an emotional sap, plays and watches tennis, is afraid of the dentist and doctor, thinks pizza is yummy, is very stubborn, is into current events, can't get enough of Seinfeld, loves his country, is a homebody, doesn't drink, is sarcastic, worries more than he should, cannot cook and is very dependable.

http://dailybriefing.wordpress.com/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

National

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Gay Married Men Group

This is a group for gay married men to talk and to support each other - they quote "Love between two persons, whether of the same sex or of a different sex, is to be respected.
"To love another, whether of the same sex or of a different sex, is to have entered the area of richest human experience." - the late Cardinal Basil Hume, Roman Catholic, Britain
This is nothing to do with www.marriedgay.org.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gaymarriedmen/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

National

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Married Gay Men Support Group

This group was created to give support to married men who have always known or recently accepted that they may also be gay or bi. Issues are discussed here and support is provided to those who need it.

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/marriedgays/

Group

Gay Persons

United States

National

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MMOMW - Making Mixed Orientation Marriages Work

This group has been created for those who are in mixed orientation marriages. Straight spouses who are married to gay or bisexuals and also the married gays and bisexuals themselves. This is a support group only.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/MMOMW/

Resource / Help

Gay / Lesbians / Straight Persons / Couples

United States

National

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Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAG)

Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAG) is a national non-profit organization with over 200,000 members and supporters and over 500 affiliates in the United States. This vast grassroots network is cultivated, resourced and serviced by the PFLAG national office, located in Washington, D.C.
There are also PFLAG affiliates in other parts of the world including Australia, Canada, France, Israel, Italy, Jamaica, Mexico, New Zealand, and United Kingdom (see FFLAG).

http://www.pflag.org/

Resource

Gay Persons

United States

National

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The Gay Dad

The site provides information for gay dads including:
- stories received,
- professional points of view,
- mailing lists,
- questions,
- starting a family,
- religious point of view,
- legal help .
It also carries a number of related links.

http://lists.milepost1.com/~gaydad/

Blog

Children

United States

National / Minnesota

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Kids of Queers

The Author hopes to provide useful information to children of gay men and women as there is little info out there. As she locates more sites, she will link to it and discuss it in the blog. Her own experience is with a gay father but she is hoping for a discussion on both men and women. She is coming from the perspective of an adult rather than a child currently going through the process. She makes no claims to be a therapist but does feel that the topics are universal. The confusion, anger, shame, acceptance, love, pride etc.
When she started this blog her intent was to have a forum for children of gay parents to feel safe to discuss what they have experienced and to let others know that they aren't the only ones who have gone through this. Again a bit of a challenge because there isn't a whole bunch of info for kids. She would certainly welcome any topics for discussion and any other helpful sites that are known..

http://kidsofqueers.blogspot.com/

Blog

Gay / Lesbians / Straight Persons

United States

National / Pennsylvania

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Discoveringpride’s Weblog

The purpose of this blog is to present a forum for people to present their views, find kinship, cogitate, rant or generally just learn more about mixed orientation marriage.

http://discoveringpride.com/WordPress/

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