two guysMarried Gay

The pages of this site, first started around the Fall of 1999, are principally for men and women who are gay, lesbian or bisexual and married to (or in a relationship with) someone of the opposite sex. They are also for their spouses, partners or girlfriends / boy friends, to help them understand what might be going on. These are typically same sex attractions and mixed orientation relationships or marriage.

Mission Statement

Mission statements can put you off but this statement defines what this site is trying to achieve:

Our Mission Statement

  • To make the world aware that there are situations where gay people are married to straight people, for whatever reason, and of the issues that surround that.

  • To help those who are in that situation in whatever way we can, through what is written on the website and elsewhere.

  • To try to encourage those considering marriage to know or understand the consequences, particularly over sexuality issues, so that at least they can make their choice accordingly.

  • To let people who marry know that it is ok to be gay, but they need to be honest with themselves and their partners and allow them to move on if they so wish.

Although this is historically the Married Gay Men site, it does now relate to all sexualities regardless of gender.

This site respects the privacy of its visitors and expects a similar respect in return. 

Whereas for the most part, these pages are written around the Married Gay male, many of them can be read, substituting "female" for "male", and vice versa.

The owner of this Married Gay site accepts no responsibility whatsoever for any consequences of actions taken by persons who may have visited this site.