Questionnaire for Women about their Men

This Questionnaire is for women aged 18 and upwards. ALL women aged 18 or above are welcome to fill in the Questionnaire but it is principally for women who are married or in a relationship with a man.

Where there are references to "marriage", this can mean "relationship", where there are references to "husband", this can mean "partner".

This Questionnaire is in parallel with another Questionnaire for men. This will enable a comparison to be made between what husbands think and what wives etc. observe.

If you are not a woman aged 18 and upwards, I would ask you to leave this page.

The Purpose of this questionnaire is to gather information anonymously about women's observations of their men in varying situations, to observe the circumstances in which they find themselves. These may be negative but there could be a positive side too. If there is then do say so when you get to the relevant question.

Some of the questions may appear to be too explicit in what they are asking but they are being asked for a reason. The questions are asked in total confidence and such information will never be linked to individuals.

It would be very much appreciated that when filling in the Questionnaire, you answer the questions with total honesty, entering in what you really think about yourself and about your husband now, not what  you would like it to be.

Results are accessible once you have filled in the Questionnaire. It is presented in such a manner that it will be impossible for anyone to tell who contributed to the questionnaire.

If you have already filled in this questionnaire once, you may do so again by entering under "What is your name?" - "Repeat Entry", stating if possible your name, if it was entered the first time around.

 

Section 1 - About You

What is your name? (Optional)

   (Not shown in the responses)

What is your age?

  years

What is your marital status?

(Required Response)

 

If "Other", state what it is

 

What brought you to this site?

 

Section 2 - About Your Husband (if you have been married)

What is your husband's age?

  years

Section 3 - Your Marriage

How long have you been / were you with your husband?

  years

How long did you know your husband before marriage?

  years

How many boyfriends did you have before you married (including your husband)?

  boyfriends

How old were you when you married?

  years

How old was your husband when you married?

  years

Why did you marry?

(Multiple choice - [CTRL] Click on each you want to select)

 

If you are using Internet Explorer 7 (beta) you may find that you can't add a second answer by pressing [CTRL]. If so enter other choices in the "Some other person" box below.

Who would you consider to be your best friend?

 

If "Some other person", explain who:

 

Are you happy in your marriage?

 

(If widowed, you may wish to answer this question)

Do you love your husband?

 

Does he love you?

Do you think you are / were aware of your husband's full sexuality?

   

 

Explain why?

 

(You may wish to say here whether you were aware or not of your husband's full sexuality before marriage)

If you are  / were aware of your husband's full sexuality, when was that?

 

 (Question added 8th April 2006)

If you were aware of or suspected your husband's full sexuality before marriage, did you think it might change with marriage?

(Enter "Not applicable" only if you considered your husband to be totally straight - i.e. Kinsey number = 0)

 

If you had known your husband was not totally heterosexual, would you still have married him?

(Enter "Not applicable" only if you considered your husband to be totally straight - i.e. Kinsey number = 0)

("Not sure" added as a choice April 5, 2006)

Have you ever asked him for the truth?

 

How much has he told you?

 

Do you have children?

  How many by your husband?      

(This relationship only)

Section 4 - Extramarital experience (applies only to those who are in or have been in marriage or partnership)

Have you ever, during the course of your marriage, suspected your husband of infidelity (with men or women)?

   

Do you know for sure?

If you are fairly certain, how did you get to know?

 

 

Explain what happened?

 

Do you think his infidelity is with women or with men?

 

What do you think caused him to go for an extramarital experience?

 

What are your feelings towards this situation?

 

Section 5 - His Sexuality

The Kinsey Scale was developed by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and his associates in the late '40s and early '50s. It is as follows:

0 - exclusively heterosexual

1 - predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual

2 - predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3 - equally heterosexual and homosexual

4 - predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5 - predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual

6 - exclusively homosexual

Where do you think he might have fitted on this scale when you married?

 

(Required Response)

 

Where do you think he might fit on this scale now?

 

(Required Response)

If you think there has been a change, explain why you think this?

 

 

Could you ever see him living with a man?

 

Has he ever fallen in love with another man?

 

The Future

Where do you think you or your marriage is likely to be in five / ten years time?

 

There may be a positive side to this - if there is, do say so.

Section 5 - Other Information

Your history

(This is an opportunity to write down what you think may be relevant to your marriage / partnership history, relationships etc., and your feelings and about where you are now. Write as much as you like!)

 

 

Comments

(This is an opportunity to write any comments you might have about this questionnaire, suggestions and things that  you consider might be missing)

 

  (Not shown in the responses)

If you are looking to contact the author, you need to go to the Contact page - click here, as there is no other means by which the author can respond to you.

If you would like to, go back over your responses above and add in where you think appropriate anything else you want to say.

That is all for the time being.

Thank you very much for taking part in this Questionnaire.

If you wish to go back to review any part of this page, before submitting, please do so now. After the Submit Form button is pressed, there will be no point of return.

Results are available to review after submission.

 

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