- - | 29 | Unmarried | Never married 0 | - | | |
- 4 I think that he feels more free to try diffierent things and I think that he was seeking something since our marriage was in such shambles. | 46 38 | Married 44 36 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 We try everything and I like seeing two men have sex.
We have had threeways out of the county and liked it | Yes I did in section 1 I feel that I may never be able to trust him again and that our marriage may be over. | I was previously married to a gay man for ten years. He is a good mad and is still my best friend. I always had supision that he was cheating on me but I could never pin point it. Then i met a casual friend of his that was going through a divorce. I fell in love with him and I believe he with I. It was very hard for me to leave my husband, but evetually I found that he had been seeing other men. It made the breakup alot easier for me, but not for him. He felt betrayed by us both. My ex was such an important part of my like that we stayed close despite the divorce. Now may years later we are best friends. The three of us travel and socialize all the time. The first 4 years of our new love relationship was wonderful, now we did fight like cats and dogs but immediately made up. Our Sex was great all the time but as I said before we grew apart and we just dont know if we can get it back. | We will eith be divorced by 2006 or we will have found a way back to the relationship we used to have. One where we each met each ohters need both sexually and emotionally, with no jelousy or doubts. |
- - | 61 61 | Divorced 25 25 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 3 He has never been totally truthful with me. During the last 10 years of our marriage when I realized that his private life included homosexual interests, he lied to me constantly. Some of the truth may have come out eventually but I'll never know the whole truth. | Yes He told me he had had sex with a man. When I insisted that we go to counseling, he withdrew this admission..stating that "he imagined this." Eventually, 10 years later, he told me the truth. | | |
0 0 | 28 | Married 24 26 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 1 | No | | Still happily together |
0 1 | | Married 28 36 | I did not want to be alone, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 | Yes | | |
0 0 | 25 | Unmarried | None of these 0 | Yes i find condoms in his pocket and he lies i am extremely upset | i'm a jealous and insecure person due to past relationships.my partner and i have always had a rocky relationship due to my feelings.i don't trust him also and i would like to build on this trust issue. | it's difficult to say i'd like to think we're happily married and enjoying the rest of our lives together |
0 0 I think my own curiosity may have caused him to think about it, but I think he's still more straight than anything. | 21 22 | Married 19 20 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | | Hopefully our marriage will still be going strong and I'll have found another woman for myself. |
0 1 | 20 22 | Other 17 19 | None of these 2 | Yes | | |
0 0 | 25 24 | Married 23 23 | None of these 3 | No | | |
0 0 | 23 24 | Other | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | | |
0 0 No | 25 25 | Other 25 25 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 i love him for no reasons. I love hime for all he is n all he makes me feel. | No | I had two Boyfrens before him but I really really luv this guy....mch more than what i can ever imagine. | |
0 0 | 25 25 | Married 22 22 | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 I think he can see that I am going through a lot emotionally since I told him that I made out with my friend and really liked it. | No | | |
0 0 | 25 25 | Married 22 22 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, I did not want to be alone, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 My husband has always been straight. He is also very into monogamy. | No | My husband has always been straight and believes in monogamy. Although he knows that I am attracted to women and knew before we got married, things are more complicated now that I am coming more to terms with it and being more open about it. | I really don't know right now. It depends on how he takes my sexuality issues and how we grow together or apart. |
0 0 | 28 26 | Married 26 24 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 | No | | |
0 0 | 25 26 | Married 24 25 | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | | children, and still happily married, even though it has only been a year and a half |
0 0 | 28 28 | Married 27 27 | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | Yes We are in a threesome relationship where every member can have sex in two- and threesome. At first it was a bit challenging to know that he will have sex with another woman without my presence but I'm all right with it now. I'm having sex with the same woman without his presence so this is fair :) And of course sometimes all the three of us are together :) | | Good question.
There are two options in my view:
1. The two of us living happily ever after.
2. The three of us living happily ever after.
:) |
0 0 | 27 29 | Married 25 27 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 he is weird | Yes | | |
0 0 | 32 31 | Married 26 25 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 | No | | divorce |
0 1 | 28 31 | Married 28 | None of these 1 he likes to fanatize about me having sex with other men and he wants to have a threesome. He loves to have sex with me on top penetrating him almost like a male would a woman , while fanatizing about me with another man. | Yes He did not come home one night and stayed over a co workers home who i suspect it bisexual male. confused, somewhat open. | We got together very young, and have grown together into adulthood. We are great parents and have goals towards the future together that we speak about. We have lots of differences like any other couple, but we are also friends. | Still happily married, and trying to reach our goals. |
0 0 | 32 32 | Other 32 33 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 We have talked about it because I could not believe he has only had two previous female partners before me. I am more experienced than my mate and the majority of my relationships have been with women. I asked him if he has ever been attracted to men or had sexual contact with a man and he said no. My future husband is many things but he won't lie if I ask him flat out. | No | If anyone is going to cheat in this relationship it will be me. I would never cheat with a man but I have a strong enough desire to continue to sleep with women, where if the situation presents it self I would not be able to resist. | |
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