- - | 29 | Unmarried | Never married 0 | - | | |
- 4 I think that he feels more free to try diffierent things and I think that he was seeking something since our marriage was in such shambles. | 46 38 | Married 44 36 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 We try everything and I like seeing two men have sex.
We have had threeways out of the county and liked it | Yes I did in section 1 I feel that I may never be able to trust him again and that our marriage may be over. | I was previously married to a gay man for ten years. He is a good mad and is still my best friend. I always had supision that he was cheating on me but I could never pin point it. Then i met a casual friend of his that was going through a divorce. I fell in love with him and I believe he with I. It was very hard for me to leave my husband, but evetually I found that he had been seeing other men. It made the breakup alot easier for me, but not for him. He felt betrayed by us both. My ex was such an important part of my like that we stayed close despite the divorce. Now may years later we are best friends. The three of us travel and socialize all the time. The first 4 years of our new love relationship was wonderful, now we did fight like cats and dogs but immediately made up. Our Sex was great all the time but as I said before we grew apart and we just dont know if we can get it back. | We will eith be divorced by 2006 or we will have found a way back to the relationship we used to have. One where we each met each ohters need both sexually and emotionally, with no jelousy or doubts. |
- - | 61 61 | Divorced 25 25 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 3 He has never been totally truthful with me. During the last 10 years of our marriage when I realized that his private life included homosexual interests, he lied to me constantly. Some of the truth may have come out eventually but I'll never know the whole truth. | Yes He told me he had had sex with a man. When I insisted that we go to counseling, he withdrew this admission..stating that "he imagined this." Eventually, 10 years later, he told me the truth. | | |
0 0 | 28 | Married 24 26 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 1 | No | | Still happily together |
0 0 | 25 | Unmarried | None of these 0 | Yes i find condoms in his pocket and he lies i am extremely upset | i'm a jealous and insecure person due to past relationships.my partner and i have always had a rocky relationship due to my feelings.i don't trust him also and i would like to build on this trust issue. | it's difficult to say i'd like to think we're happily married and enjoying the rest of our lives together |
0 1 | 24 | Married 23 23 | None of these 0 | Yes | | |
0 1 | | Married 28 36 | I did not want to be alone, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 | Yes | | |
0 0 | 18 18 | Married 17 17 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 | No | | |
0 0 | 19 19 | Other | Never married 0 I have never really asked him. | No | We started going out at 16 when we met at school. We didn't become physically intimate for about a year and a half (as in kissing and making out). As the years have gone by we have gotten much closer, but have not had sex yet. Neither of us has had a relationship before and both of us are virgins.
We've had our up and downs, but (as cliché as this sounds) our love grows stronger. Although we have only known each other for four years, I feel as if we have grown up together, and I have learnt so much about life and love from being with him.
Our biggest problem is our differences in looking at the world: I'm more of an optimist whereas he is more of a pessimist (or a realist as he calls it!). | We're still very young, so we may grow apart. But if things stay as they have been, we will be married in that time. |
0 0 I think my own curiosity may have caused him to think about it, but I think he's still more straight than anything. | 21 22 | Married 19 20 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | | Hopefully our marriage will still be going strong and I'll have found another woman for myself. |
0 0 Not applicable. | 23 22 | Married 20 20 | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 My husband is very black and white. He is the average American, conservative, military man. He is not very open-minded and he has trouble seeing things from other peoples' points of view. | No He's never had extramarital experiences as far as I know. Not applicable. | My husband has never been with a man and never would be with a man. I have been with a woman and would love to be with a woman again in my lifetime. I believe that a woman has the capability to allow another woman to feel something that a man is not capable of making a woman feel. I feel that I have a different connection with a man and a woman on a sexual level and my husband would never understand that. | I have no idea. I hope that our marriage is amazing in the years to come. I hope that we mature and grow together in our marriage, but only time will tell whether or not that will happen. |
0 1 | 20 22 | Other 17 19 | None of these 2 | Yes | | |
0 0 | 23 24 | Other | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | | |
0 0 | 25 24 | Married 23 23 | None of these 3 | No | | |
0 0 | 25 25 | Married 22 22 | My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 I think he can see that I am going through a lot emotionally since I told him that I made out with my friend and really liked it. | No | | |
0 0 No | 25 25 | Other 25 25 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 i love him for no reasons. I love hime for all he is n all he makes me feel. | No | I had two Boyfrens before him but I really really luv this guy....mch more than what i can ever imagine. | |
0 0 | 25 25 | Married 22 22 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, I did not want to be alone, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 My husband has always been straight. He is also very into monogamy. | No | My husband has always been straight and believes in monogamy. Although he knows that I am attracted to women and knew before we got married, things are more complicated now that I am coming more to terms with it and being more open about it. | I really don't know right now. It depends on how he takes my sexuality issues and how we grow together or apart. |
0 0 | 24 25 | Married 22 23 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 1 WE share our intimate needs and desire with each other and do our best to fulfill them | No | open communication, never holding in feelings because they build up and can be released at the tiniest indiscretion.
being able to handle the truth, do not ask if you can't handle it.
listen carefully, its important to listen to your partner making sure they feel that they have the opportunity to express there feelings. | Hopefully developed into a deeper, personal relationship where we know each other having less misunderstanding and less miscommunication. |
0 0 | 28 26 | Married 26 24 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 | No | | |
0 0 | 22 26 | Married 22 26 | I met and fell in love with my husband / partner 0 We discuss our sexualities openly. | No | | |
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