0 | | Younger than 10 years old 1 | Separated 22 yrs | 21 I met and fell in love with my husband 1 | No | Yes Curiosity - - | Men only Never Never | | |
0 | | 10 - 14 years old 1 | Unmarried 1 yrs | 24 I met and fell in love with my husband 0 - | No | - - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 20 | Younger than 10 years old 0 | Unmarried 0 yrs | None of these 0 | - | - - - - | - Never It is something that could happen | | |
0 | 21 | 10 - 14 years old 0 | Unmarried 0.1 yrs | 22 Never married 0 - | Possibly | - - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 22 | 10 - 14 years old 0 | Other engaged to be married 0 yrs | I met and fell in love with my husband 0 | No | - - - - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 23 | 15 - 20 years old 5 | Unmarried 1 yrs | 0.1 Never married 0 - | Possibly | - - | - It is a possibility Never | 3 long term boyfriends- first came out as gay to me after 2 years. Last boyfriend cheated with younger girl. Alays have crushes on older men | I bought my own house, i have been single for 3 years. I want a companion and crave sex. I have trouble meeting people.I dont want to be alone |
0 | 23 | Younger than 10 years old 5 | Married 1 yrs | 23 I met and fell in love with my husband 0 - | No | No - | - It is a possibility Never | I've never had or particularly wanted a relationship with another woman. For awhile I din't want one with men either. I was raped at the age of 17 and shortly thereafter fell into a pattern of extremes. I was either promiscuous and sexually gressive with my boyfriends or I would withdraw and avoid close relationships of any kind. | I'm a newly wed with an incredible husband. I see my future in the very best light and have no doubts that I will continue to be completely happy. |
0 | 24 | 10 - 14 years old 4 | Married 6 yrs | 19 I met and fell in love with my husband, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 2 | Possibly I was younger and thought immature, as I got older I look at things in a whole different perspective. | No - - - | - Never Never | When I was younger me and another girl fooled around with each other. | Maybe a casual fling but nothing too serious. |
0 | 24 | Younger than 10 years old 3 | Married 13 yrs | 22 Never married, I met and fell in love with my husband, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 2 - | No | No - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 25 | 10 - 14 years old 6 | Married 2 yrs | 23 I met and fell in love with my husband 0 - | Yes | No - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 28 | Younger than 10 years old 2 | Married 4.5 yrs | 23 I met and fell in love with my husband, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 - | No | No Not applicable | Not applicable Never Never | Both me and my husband were virgins when we got married. Neither of us have ever been unfaithful, but I am definitely the "initiator" when it comes to sex. My husband has a hard time showing me physical love, he always has. We've had many "talks" (ie. arguments) about this, and he has gotten better over the years, but I do believe this takes a lot of effort for him. I know he loves me, but he confessed to me at the beginning of our marriage that he often has "gay feelings" though he continues to suppress and deny these feelings - he certainly has never acted on these feelings, but I do worry that he will some day. We are religious, and do not "believe" in homosexuality, this is the primary reason he has not acted on these feelings, as well as the fact that he loves me and does not want to hurt me. | We want to start a family, but are worried that we may not be together forever. His "gay feelings" are becoming more frequent, and he has been struggling with depression. We believe there is a connection between these: He thinks the depression makes the gay feelings seem worse, while I think he's depressed because he's suppressing his true self. We're at the point now where we both love each other, but realize a divorce or seperation may be in our future because of his feelings. |
0 | 28 | Younger than 10 years old 4 | Divorced 2 yrs | 21 I met and fell in love with my husband 2 - | No | No Not applicable | Not applicable Never Never | | |
0 | 29 | 15 - 20 years old 3 | Married 2 yrs | 27 I met and fell in love with my husband 0 | No | No - - Not applicable | Not applicable Never Never | | |
0 | 29 | 10 - 14 years old 4 | Married 3 yrs | 26 My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 0 | No | No - - - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 29 | 10 - 14 years old 7 | Separated 7 yrs | 23 I met and fell in love with my husband 0 - | No | Yes Before we married i knew that my husband was bi-sexual. As the years passed, he became less and less intimate with me. The sex dried up and we became more friends. I would find gay porn everywhere and it became apparent that i was not enough for him. I developed an eating dissorder as I felt ugly and undesirable. That is when I looked for comfort elsewhere. - | Men only Never Never | | |
0 | 29 | 10 - 14 years old 2 | Widowed 2 yrs | 26 I met and fell in love with my husband 1 | No | No - - - | - Never Never | I am a 100% heterosexual christian woman. I have only and will only ever be attracted to men. The way God created it. I believe people should not have sex before marriage (man and woman). I did with two guys before my husband and i felt guilty and empty after it. There is a reason God makes rules, its for our good, not to stop us having 'fun'.
I also know that homosexuality is an abomination unto God and it causes an appetite that can never be quenched. So,its not satisfying. | To an awesome destiny in God, with a beautiful "STRAIGHT" christian husband, more kids and a lot smarter,wiser,happier me! |
0 | 29 | 10 - 14 years old 2 | Married 7 yrs | 22 I met and fell in love with my husband 3 - | Possibly I feel somewhat attracted to females | No Not applicable | Not applicable It is a possibility Yes | | |
0 | 30 | 10 - 14 years old 15 | Married 7 yrs | 23 I met and fell in love with my husband, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 1 - | No | No - | - Never Never | | |
0 | 32 | 10 - 14 years old when I was about 12 I made out with a guy for the first time and it was great. 4 | Separated 10 yrs | 22 I met and fell in love with my husband 2 I am a regular straight traditional kind of women | No | No not applicable - Not applicable | Not applicable Never Never | I have a hard time trusting people in general and I can not stand to be lied to. my husband has been cought in numorous lies most of which had nothing to do with his sexuality. the last few years I have felt like he couldn't stand to be around me. Everytime we were alone together we always ended up fighting. He got to were he was calling me awful things like Bitch, cunt, whore etc.. and I just got to where I didn't want anything to do with him socially or physically and he just can not understand that I am only reacting to the way he treats me. I mean I never knew what kind of person I was going to be going home to he would be fine and out of nowhere he start yelling and cussing and slamming doors.About 4 months ago I found pictures of him engageing in sexual acts with a person that had boobs & a penis and now I think all his anger toward me was because he was feeling guilt or confusion about all of that and he was taking it out on me. It is a relief to be away from him, knowing when i go home I don't have to worry about him and his cursing. but I do miss him.
Right now I am taking some time and taking all the advice I can get to make the decision to get a divorce or to get marriage counseling and try to make it work. I am a little scared being on my own raising kids alone, I've never been on my own I moved out of dad's house and in with Jeff when I was 21 years old and been with him ever since. | I plan to buy a house in the next 2 years and have all this mess behind me rather it be alone or with Jeff. I hope if I am divorced I will be in a relationship in the next 5 years. And I hope I will be over all of this. |
0 | 32 | Younger than 10 years old 5 | Married 3 yrs | 27 I met and fell in love with my husband, My husband is my best friend and I wanted to marry him 2 | No | Yes Physical attraction, emotional attachment to affair partner...discoverd husband's bi-sexual infidelity while this was starting so it made living with my own infidelity a lot easier - No, never | Men only Never Never | | |
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