Questionnaire for Men about Themselves

This Questionnaire is for men aged 18 and upwards. ALL men aged 18 or above are welcome to fill in the Questionnaire

There is also a Questionnaire for Women which asks wives, girlfriends etc. about their observations of their male counterpart. This will hopefully enable a comparison to be made between what husbands think and what wives etc. observe.

If you are not a man aged 18 and upwards, I would ask you to leave this page.

The Purpose of this questionnaire is to gather information anonymously on men in varying situations, to observe sexuality and sexual activity trends from the man's point of view.

There is a bias towards men who are or have been married, but where possible, questions apply to men regardless of their sexuality or marital status. The questionnaire to an extent attracts negative answers but there could be a positive side too. If there is, then do say so when you get to the relevant question asking about the future.

Some of the questions may appear to be too explicit in what they are asking but they are being asked for a reason. The questions are asked in total confidence and such information will never be linked to individuals.

It would be very much appreciated that when filling in the Questionnaire, you answer the questions with total honesty, entering in what you really think about yourself now, not what  you would like to think about yourself.

Results are accessible once you have filled in the Questionnaire. It is presented in such a manner that it will be impossible for anyone to tell who contributed to the questionnaire.

If you have already filled in this questionnaire once, you may do so again by entering under "What is your name?" - "Repeat Entry", stating if possible your name, if it was entered the first time around.

 

Section 1 - Background

What is your name? (Optional)

What is your age?  

   (Not shown in the responses)

  years

What is your marital status?

(Required Response)

  

If "Other", state what it is

 

"Unmarrieds" may wish to go to Section 4 - Your Sexuality

Section 2 - Marriage

How long have you been / were you married?

   years

 

How long did you know your wife before marriage? e.g engagement  years

How many girlfriends did you have before you married (including your wife)?

  girlfriends 

 

How old were you when you married?  years

Why did you marry?

(Multiple choice - [CTRL] Click on each you want to select)

 

If you are using Internet Explorer 7 (beta) you may find that you can't add a second answer by pressing [CTRL]. If so enter other choices in the "Some other person" box below.

Who would you consider to be your best friend?

 

 If "Some other person", explain who:

 

Do you love your wife?

(Question introduced 6th April 2006)

 

Does she love you?

(Question introduced 6th April 2006) 

 

Does your wife know about your full sexuality?

 

 If "yes", when did she get to know:

 

 

 If "no", explain what you are withholding from her:

 

 

 

 If "No", will you ever tell her? 

 

 

  If "No", and she suspects and asks you, what will you do?

 

Do you have children?

  If yes, how many?       

Section 3 - Extramarital experience

Have you ever, during the course of your marriage, had sexual experience with one or more other people?

   

Does / did your wife know about your extra-marital experiences?

 

If "Yes", how did your wife get to know?

 

 If "She found out", explain how:

 

If "No", are you planning to tell her?

 

If "Yes", with whom have you had a sexual experience?

 

 (If you have not had extramarital sex with one or more partners, enter "Not applicable")

What do you think caused you to go for an extramarital experience?

 

 (If you have wish to state the numbers of extramarital partners here, feel free to do so)

Extra-maritally, do you practice safe sex?

 

(For avoidance of doubt, "Never" means you never practice safe sex)

Remember that if you have extramarital experiences, it is vital that periodically you are checked for potentially harmful diseases that could be passed to you. Not only are they a risk to you but also to your wife.

Section 4 - Your Sexuality (for all responding to this questionnaire, regardless of sexuality or marital status)

The Kinsey Scale was developed by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and his associates in the late '40s and early '50s. It is as follows:

0 - exclusively heterosexual

1 - predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual

2 - predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3 - equally heterosexual and homosexual

4 - predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5 - predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual

6 - exclusively homosexual

Where do you think you fit on this scale now?

  (Required Response)

If "None of these", please explain:

 

When do you think you  first discovered your sexuality?

  (Required Response)

Explain the circumstances if you want to

 

Do you think that your sexuality has changed in any way since your first realization?

 

(This question is not about nature vs. nurture, it is about determining whether we are capable of changing the way we act sexually)

If "yes" or "possibly", explain circumstances if you want to.

 

 

(You may wish to say what you think your Kinsey number may have been at the time you married your present spouse or in your early days of forming any relationship)

Could you ever see yourself living with a man?

 

Have you ever fallen in love with another man?

 

Section 5 - Other Information

Your history

(This is an opportunity to write down what you think may be relevant to your sexual history, relationships etc., and your feelings and about where you are now. Write as much as you like!)

 

 

Where do you think the future might take you?

(This question has not been available for those who have filled in the questionnaire in the early stages. However, in filling this in, do think of the things positive as well as negative.)

 

 

Any comments?

(This is an opportunity to write any comments you might have about this questionnaire, suggestions and things that  you consider might be missing)

If you are looking to contact the author or are looking for any sort of information, you need to go to the Contact page - click here, as there is no other means by which the author can respond to you.

 

  (Not shown in the responses)

If you would like to, go back over your responses above and add in where you think appropriate anything else you want to say.

That is all for the time being.

Thank you very much for taking part in this Questionnaire.

If you wish to go back to review any part of this page, before submitting, please do so now. After the Submit Form button is pressed, there will be no point of return.

Results are available to review after submission.

 

If you wish to view other responses in a separate page before submission Click here

 


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