QUESTIONNAIRE FOR MEN ABOUT THEMSELVES

DETAILED RESPONSES

Remember the Kinsey Scale is as follows:

0 - exclusively heterosexual

1 - predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual

2 - predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3 - equally heterosexual and homosexual

4 - predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5 - predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual

6 - exclusively homosexual.

7 - none of these (not on the scale)

This is a summary of the responses posted since October 1, 2005 (best seen in full screen - F11):

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Kinsey

Scale

Explan-

ation

Age

Age of discovery

Circumstances

Girlfriends

Marital Status

Other

Years married

Age at marriage

Why marry?

No of Children

Withheld info

Sexuality Change?

How changed?

Extra-marital

Why Extra-marital?

How found out?

Plan to tell?

Sex of Partners

Live with man?

Love a man?

Your HistoryThe Future

0

19

10 - 14 years old

0.2 girlfriend(s)

Unmarried

 

0.2 yrs

0.2

Never married

0

-

No

No

-

-

Not applicable

Not applicable

Yes, definitely

Never

0

21

10 - 14 years old

5 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

2 yrs

19

My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her

0

-

No

Yes

i wanted more sex

-

-

Women only

It is a possibility

Never

0

23

15 - 20 years old

0 girlfriend(s)

Unmarried

 

0 yrs

 

Never married

0

-

Possibly

-

-

-

Not applicable

Not applicable

Never

Never

I don't have a clue. Maybe to marriage

0

26

10 - 14 years old

2 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

1 yrs

26

I did not want to be alone

0

-

No

Yes

-

-

No, never

Women only

Never

Never

0

32

Younger than 10 years old

2 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

6 yrs

26

I met and fell in love with my wife

2

-

No

No

Not applicable

Not applicable

It is a possibility

Never

0

33

Younger than 10 years old

0 girlfriend(s)

Unmarried

 

0 yrs

 

Never married

0

-

No

-

-

-

-

-

Never

Never

0

34

10 - 14 years old

0 girlfriend(s)

Other

partnership

0 yrs

 

Never married

0

-

No

-

-

-

-

-

Never

Never

0

34

15 - 20 years old

thoughts and feelings at 16-17 rapidly and succesfully repressed untill i was 30 ish

0 girlfriend(s)

Other

co-habiting

0 yrs

 

None of these

0

-

Possibly

thoughts and feelings now quite strong and all though in full time hetrosexual relationship, have started lying to cover this up leading to a relationship breakdown

No

-

-

-

-

Never

Never

At 16-17 had feelings 7 thoughts that i didnt understand, repressed these and joined the army in 1988. Male dominated society and being gay was against military protocols and would have led to dismissal. Kept feelings repressed and had a number of hetrosexual liasons and a marriage during my time in the army as it was the only way at the time to repress my feelings.
Left the army in 2001 and fellings & thoughts have grown in intensity and have finally been unable to cope and have now told my long term partner about this, having allready caused the relationship to fail due to lying to attemt to cover up my feelings.
I have no idea. I dont want to loose my partner as i truly love her and on the in frequent occasions we make love it is mind blowing. The relationship is failing if not over and i am lost & confused.

0

34

Younger than 10 years old

4 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

4 yrs

30

I met and fell in love with my wife

2

-

No

Yes

-

-

No, never

-

Never

Never

0

35

10 - 14 years old

by watching movies

3 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

8 yrs

28

I wanted to marry to hide my true sexuality

0

-

Possibly

Yes

I cannot control my sexual feelings. more than 30 women have had intercourse

-

Yes, but I do not know when

Women only

Never

Never

I want to faithful with my wife , but I cannot control my desire for sex with a woman who is ready to have intercourse with me. I must control my sexual desire through meditation.

0

35

10 - 14 years old

35 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

11 yrs

25

I met and fell in love with my wife, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her

1

-

Yes

got older

No

-

-

-

Not applicable

Never

Never

sexually open all of my life.I sometimes enjoy watching gay movies, and enjoy anal stimulation. My preference also is straight anal videos.(anal fetish?) I don't find men in the least bit attractive,

0

36

Younger than 10 years old

60 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

4.5 yrs

26

I met and fell in love with my wife, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her

1

-

No

Yes

I'm very sexual. We both entertained the idea of having sex with another couple. We're pretty open with each other and both are very sexual. We have met with two couples. First time the other husband just watched while my wife, his wife, and I played. Second time the girls played and then we swapped.

My wife and I had sex with another couple together. We swapped.

-

Women only

Never

Never

My first experience sexually was with another boy when I was 8. I think it was more curiousity. We were always looking for porn, playing with each other, etc. When I was around 11 my sister and I fooled around. She was 2 yrs older and loved playing with me, having sex with me and trying stuff out on each other. I watched her play with her girlfriend too. Believe it or not I never tried playing with myself. When I was 14 my best friend taught me how to masturbate. One thing lead to another and we ended up doing everything toghether (oral, anal, you name it). The last time I did anything sexual with another guy was with him when I was 15. Since then I have been with many women. I love sex and just can't seem to get enough. I don't think I'm gay because I'm not interested in men emotionally. I like the physical pleasure. My wife often will use a strap on with me during our sexual play. I love the feeling.I think eventually I will give in and have some sort of sexual experience with another man. Hopefully with my wife but I kind of wouldn't mind if it were just me another man. The first time any way.

0

39

10 - 14 years old

10 girlfriend(s)

Separated

 

3 yrs

35

I did not want to be alone

0

-how many partners, freaky side

Yes

become more aggressive

Yes

attention

i told her

-

Women only

Never

Never

0

39

Younger than 10 years old

20 girlfriend(s)

Unmarried

I got a Civil Annullment, so legally my Marriage never happened and I am thus "Unmarried"

1 yrs

35

I met and fell in love with my wife

0

-

No

No

-

-

Not applicable

Not applicable

Never

Never

0

40

Younger than 10 years old

3 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

15 yrs

25

I met and fell in love with my wife

2

-

No

No

-

-

Never

Never

0

41

Younger than 10 years old

2 girlfriend(s)

Separated

 

18 yrs

24

I met and fell in love with my wife

0

-

No

Yes

Wife had been cold, distant. Found out she had had a sexual experience with anther woman. I only had one extramarital event. It was while intoxicated and was with a prostitute while on deployment in the Army.

-

-

Women only

Never

Never

0

41

Younger than 10 years old

5 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

6 yrs

35

I did not want to be alone

3

-

No

No

-

-

-

-

Never

Never

0

41

10 - 14 years old

5 girlfriend(s)

Divorced

 

17 yrs

21

I met and fell in love with my wife

0

-

No

Yes

loneliness

-

No, never

Women only

Never

Never

0

41

15 - 20 years old

4 girlfriend(s)

Married

 

10 yrs

31

I met and fell in love with my wife

3

nothing

Yes

No

-

-

Never

Never

0

43

10 - 14 years old

0 girlfriend(s)

Unmarried

 

0 yrs

 

Never married

0

-

No

No

-

-

Not applicable

Not applicable

Yes, definitely

It is something that could happen

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