Questionnaire for Men about their Women

This Questionnaire is for men aged 18 and upwards. ALL men aged 18 or above are welcome to fill in the Questionnaire but it is principally for men who are married or in a relationship with a woman.

Where there are references to "marriage", this can mean "relationship", where there are references to "wife", this can mean "partner".

This Questionnaire is in parallel with another Questionnaire for women. This will enable a comparison to be made between what wives think and what husbands etc. observe.

If you are not a man aged 18 and upwards, I would ask you to leave this page.

The Purpose of this questionnaire is to gather information anonymously about men's observations of their women in varying situations, to observe the circumstances in which they find themselves. These may be negative but there could be a positive side too. If there is then do say so when you get to the relevant question.

Some of the questions may appear to be too explicit in what they are asking but they are being asked for a reason. The questions are asked in total confidence and such information will never be linked to individuals.

It would be very much appreciated that when filling in the Questionnaire, you answer the questions with total honesty, entering in what you really think about yourself and about your wife now, not what  you would like it to be.

Results are accessible once you have filled in the Questionnaire. It is presented in such a manner that it will be impossible for anyone to tell who contributed to the questionnaire.

If you have already filled in this questionnaire once, you may do so again by entering under "What is your name?" - "Repeat Entry", stating if possible your name, if it was entered the first time around.

Finally, if you appeal for help through the questionnaire, the author cannot respond to you. It is better to go to the Contact page, after you have completed the questionnaire, and leave a message there.

Section 1 - About You

What is your name? (Optional)

   (Not shown in the responses)

What is your age?

  years

What is your marital status?

(Required Response)

 

If "Other", state what it is

 

What brought you to this site?

 

Section 2 - About Your Wife (if you have been married)

What is your wife's age?

  years

Section 3 - Your Marriage

How long have you been / were you with your wife?

  years

How long did you know your wife before marriage?

  years

How many girlfriends did you have before you married (including your wife)?

  girlfriends

How old were you when you married?

  years

How old was your wife when you married?

  years

Why did you marry?

(Multiple choice - [CTRL] Click on each you want to select)

 

If you are using Internet Explorer 7 (beta) you may find that you can't add a second answer by pressing [CTRL]. If so enter other choices in the "Some other person" box below.

Who would you consider to be your best friend?

 

If "Some other person", explain who:

 

Are you happy in your marriage?

 

(If widowed, you may wish to answer this question)

Do you love your wife?

 

Does she love you?

Do you think you are / were aware of your wife's full sexuality?

   

 

Explain why?

 

(You may wish to say here whether you were aware or not of your wife's full sexuality before marriage)

If you were aware of or suspected your wife's full sexuality before marriage, did you think it might change with marriage?

(Enter "Not applicable" only if you considered your wife to be totally straight - i.e. Kinsey number = 0)

 

If you had known your wife was not totally heterosexual, would you still have married her?

(Enter "Not applicable" only if you considered your wife to be totally straight - i.e. Kinsey number = 0)

Have you ever asked her for the truth?

 

How much has she told you?

 

Do you have children?

  How many by your wife?    

Section 4 - Extramarital experience (applies only to those who are in or have been in marriage or partnership)

Have you ever, during the course of your marriage, suspected your wife of infidelity (with men or women)?

   

Do you know for sure?

If you are fairly certain, how did you get to know?

 

 

Explain what happened?

 

Do you think her infidelity is with women or with men?

 

What do you think caused her to go for an extramarital experience?

 

What are your feelings towards this situation?

 

Section 5 - His Sexuality

The Kinsey Scale was developed by Dr. Alfred Kinsey and his associates in the late '40s and early '50s. It is as follows:

0 - exclusively heterosexual

1 - predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual

2 - predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual

3 - equally heterosexual and homosexual

4 - predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual

5 - predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual

6 - exclusively homosexual

Where do you think she might have fitted on this scale when you married?

 

(Required Response)

 

Where do you think she might fit on this scale now?

 

(Required Response)

If you think there has been a change, explain why you think this?

 

 

Could you ever see her living with a woman?

 

Has she ever fallen in love with another woman?

 

The Future

Where do you think you or your marriage is likely to be in five / ten years time?

 

There may be a positive side to this - if there is, do say so.

Section 5 - Other Information

Your history

(This is an opportunity to write down what you think may be relevant to your marriage / partnership history, relationships etc., and your feelings and about where you are now. Write as much as you like!)

 

 

Comments

(This is an opportunity to write any comments you might have about this questionnaire, suggestions and things that  you consider might be missing)

 

  (Not shown in the responses)

If you are looking to contact the author, you need to go to the Contact page - click here, as there is no other means by which the author can respond to you.

If you would like to, go back over your responses above and add in where you think appropriate anything else you want to say.

That is all for the time being.

Thank you very much for taking part in this Questionnaire.

If you wish to go back to review any part of this page, before submitting, please do so now. After the Submit Form button is pressed, there will be no point of return.

Results are available to review after submission.

 

If you wish to view other responses in a separate page before submission Click here

 


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Last modified: 04/05/08.

 

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