0 0 | | Widowed 20 19 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 3 did not wont to know | Yes no feelings | | |
0 0 | 20 19 | Married 20 19 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 2 | Not applicable | | |
0 0 | 21 19 | Married 19 18 | I did not want to be alone 0 | No | | |
0 0 | 27 25 | Married 25 23 | I did not want to be alone, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 0 Very vocal about her sexuality. | No | | Each living out our fantasy of a perfect marriage. Despite inner certainty of its fraudulent nature. |
0 0 | 27 26 | Married 23 22 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 0 We have always been fully honest with each otherabout sexuality and sexual experience | No | We are currently trying to come to terms with my sexuality and its implications for our marriage. We married in love as friends aware of my curiousity towards men but not having really properly explored it. I grew up in a strict christian family that tought me that acting on gay urges was a sin and it has taken many years to try and reconcile my christian faith with my sexuality. however I now believe it is possible to have a future that has room for both as god made me the way I am and therfore is able to meet me where i am, even wants to and accepts me as he made me. sorry if this sounds a bit preachy but this belief has been an amazingly liberating discovery for me. | I don't think we will still be married in 5 years time but I hope we will still be very close friends and that we will both one day to be able to build commited fulfilling relationships with new men |
0 0 | 30 31 | Married 18 19 | My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 2 | No | | |
0 0 | 31 31 | Married 25 25 | My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 2 | - | | |
0 0 | 31 28 | Married 29 25 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner, I did not want to be alone 1 she is not interested, she feel very tired | Not applicable | | |
0 0 | 31 27 | Married 21 17 | I did not want to be alone 2 | No | | |
0 0 | 33 33 | Married 18 18 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 2 She was very sheltered while growing up. I was her first and she hasn't had anyone else. | No | | |
0 0 None | 34 27 | Married 32 25 | My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 1 Its obvious from the way she acts.I was fully aware before marriage. | Yes I dont wanna talk about it Numb | | Dunno |
0 0 | 34 33 | Married 27 27 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 1 I am fully aware of her sexuality and was before we married. | No | | We will still be happily together. |
0 0 | 34 25 | Married 32 23 | None of these 2 | Not applicable | | |
0 0 | 34 31 | Married 28 25 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 1 I think she would find reasons to suspect me being gay if she were LOOKING for it. But she's not, so I don't think she suspects anything at all. | Yes | | |
0 2 She says she dealt with emotional pain that drove her away from men and toward women. | 34 38 | Married 22 26 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner, My wife is my best friend and I wanted to marry her 3 She told me about past relationships, including a one year lesbian relationship. | No | | |
0 0 | 34 37 | Married 26 30 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 10 i was not aware of the many partners my wife had before we were married. i knew she had a threesome with an ex-boyfriend and her past boyfriend and she had a child with the past boyfriend (who denied the fathering because he accused her of getting pregnant from her ex-boyfriend during the threesome) | No | i am feeling like i settled in marriage because i did not want to let down my wife's daughter. | probably remaining in a settling marriage we now share. we have one child together, so we are less likely to leave each other and impact his upbringning and her daughter's upbringing. |
0 0 | 34 32 | Married 33 31 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 0 Gut feeling; her cultural background would also suggest so. | No | | Still married, having children. |
0 0 | 35 34 | Married 27 26 | None of these 1 | Yes | | |
0 0 | 37 37 | Married 21 21 | None of these 3 | No | | |
0 1 | 37 30 | Married 27 23 | I met and fell in love with my wife / partner 0 | No | | good |
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